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Dating Safely
Hello there! Welcome to this week’s episode of Charlie’s Toolbox. Today’s topic is safety. Physical safety as well as emotional safety. I thought this would be a good topic to discuss because I’ve been seeing many tips typically used by experienced sex workers passed off as dating advice. I worry about this because sex workers are not naïve about men, but you all are, and your naivety is something that can be preyed upon, exploited, and used as an opening for violence. So, yo

Charlie Taylor
6 min read


How to Cope with Friendship Betrayal
This week we are going to discuss what to do when a friend betrays you.

Charlie Taylor
5 min read


The Elements of a Good Friendship…
Hi there! Welcome to Charlie’s Toolbox. This week we are discussing a timely topic, friendships. This episode was requested by the Charlie’s Toolbox community and is a topic that has been central to my life for a little while. So, like always let’s get into what’s going on with me, the song of the week, and finally the main topic. What’s going on with me A few months ago I had a friendship breakup with someone I considered a good friend. Long story short, I found out by probi

Charlie Taylor
6 min read


There is No Cut-off Age for Joy
Episode Summary This episode is all about aging. We take a deep dive into aging what models we use to shape our new identity, and how difficult aging can be for women. You should leave this episode with a new model of aging, a deeper understanding of why we view aging in such dread, and tips on keeping your joy and hope intact while aging gracefully. Intro:22 About Me:51 Song of the Week: 2:21 Main topic 3:30 Tips 12:24 Episode Transcript Hi there! Welcome to this episode of

Charlie Taylor
6 min read


Suffering is Not your Birthright Even if your Parents Made you Feel Like it is.
Hi there! Welcome to this week’s episode of Charlie’s Toolbox. Today we are going to discuss why suffering is not your birthright, but before we get into the main topic let’s discuss what’s going on in my world, the song of the week, and finally the main topic. What’s Going on in my world So, what’s going on in my world? This week has been filled with hella anxiety. I have weird anxiety that is only triggered when I must do small things. So, things like going to the post offi

Charlie Taylor
5 min read


Choosing Yourself Is a Gift
Transcript for episode 34 on the podcast Charlie's Toolbox.

Charlie Taylor
9 min read


Getting Back to You: The Art of Remembering Your Spark (Part 2.)
Part. 1 we discussed the art of getting back to yourself. I asked you to acknowledge you are in a pandemic because that plays a role in your

Charlie Taylor
9 min read


Getting Back to You: The Art of Remembering Your Spark (Part 1.)
Explore Part 1 of Charlie's Toolbox, where authenticity reigns. Join Charlie Taylor for insightful segments on self-discovery and empowermen

Charlie Taylor
5 min read


How to Decenter Men
Explore the practice of decentering men and discover actionable tips to live life.

Charlie Taylor
3 min read


What Happens When You Run Away From Pain
Running from pain often seems like the best choice, but eventually it catches up and you realize that running away was not worth it.

Charlie Taylor
4 min read


Carefrontation
Carefrontation is a tool that help you set your boundaries with care. Learn how to use this today!

Charlie Taylor
6 min read


The Difficulties of Embracing Peace
This week I want to discuss embracing peace and the struggle that shows up while embracing it.

Charlie Taylor
4 min read


Understanding Self-Sabotage
Self-Sabotage is very common. However, working through it is not. Learn steps to over come self-sabotage.

Charlie Taylor
5 min read


Dear Over-Liker...This is for you.
Explore the concept of freely loving and embracing emotions without guilt or shame. Join Charlie!

Charlie Taylor
3 min read


Feeling Balanced While Dating
Join Charlie on this episode of Charlie’s Toolbox as she delves into the complexities of dating anxiety and offers insights.

Charlie Taylor
5 min read


How To Make Your Life Magical
We all want to feel spectacular, but we don't know how. Discover six tips to teach you how to find magic.

Charlie Taylor
5 min read


Stop Worrying! It’s Just a Date
Dating is hard, but it is even more difficult when you are remembering all of your past failures. Learn how to overcome your own fear.

Charlie Taylor
6 min read


It's Worth Being True to Yourself
Being yourself is tough when your caretakers teach you that your innate self is wrong. This article teaches you why they are wrong.

Charlie Taylor
6 min read


The Power of NO
No is one of the best tools to use as a woman. Learn why you should say no, and how.

Charlie Taylor
5 min read


How To Transform Your Jealousy into Inspiration
Like most of you, I now have more leisure time. As a result, I could finally sit down with myself and recognize some of my most hidden but detrimental patterns. One of the truths I had to come to terms with is how deep my core belief of worthiness impacted my relationship with others. It colored every interaction, and though I thought I shrugged those thoughts off, deep down the seed of unworthiness showed up, and its form was jealousy. In the next few minutes, I am going to

Charlie Taylor
6 min read
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