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If you know my work, you know that I condone anger and revenge. I know a lot of people are surprised by this, but I think there is a place

When your mother was a child, her parents were abusive. Like all children, she adopted a coping mechanism to shield her from abuse.

My parents never spoke about dating. It wasn't a conversation that was ever had. When I started to date, I hid it from my family. They never

Life can be cruel. It can beat you up. It can take away that sparkle in your eye. It can also uplift you. It can make you feel like you...

Both men and women have critical internal voices. The only difference is that the world often prepares men to make rejection impersonal,

Today is a good day, you say to yourself after waking up. You stretch, take your vitamins, open the curtains, and prepare for this good...

Mr. Self-Help and Mr. Therapy is the latest iteration of strategies men use to gain your trust.

Every day I hear new stories about women being flexible with their boundaries and subsequently exploited

A lot of girls are/were dummy bitches. They took their foremothers' survival techniques in a more violent form of patriarchy and thought

What lessons did your parents provide to prepare for the challenges in the dating world? My parents taught me about the value of knowing...

Friends are amazing. They can fill your life with so many colors. They can encourage you and be your source of support.

Your good friend has been melancholy for a while. You used to invite her out. Encourage her to live a little, but after every event, she...

(Spoiler Alert)             There are relationships where It does not take heavy lifting to truly connect. Those relationships are often...

A young woman meets a guy. The man and woman date and fall in love. While in this process, her guy tells her a story of his dream. He believ

You meet this cute guy that looks extremely good on paper. The only problem is he talks to you like you have no knowledge of anything and...

A couple of years ago I had a big shift. I took all of the energy I used obsessing about men and decided to focus on me.

If you've been keeping up with Insecure, you've followed the story of Molly. Molly is an archetypal successful woman who fails at love.

After a long hiatus, you get back into dating. You go on many dates, but before, during, and after you keep thinking about all of the

It’s 2:00 pm and you have a brunch reservation with your girlfriends. The unlimited mimosas are pouring and loud laughter is ensuing, but so

Feeling exhausted by dating? You're not alone. The pressure to find "the one" can be overwhelming, especially for women in their 30s.